“He’s a family man.” “Good old family values.” “There’s nothing more important than family.” We’ve heard it, we’ve probably said it. To a certain degree it’s true. Among the gifts that God has given us in this world, family stands out as a particularly bright and beautiful gem. Companionship. Joy. Laughter. Love. Snuggling up on the couch. Little arms around your neck. Family dinners. These are all truly wonderful things. And Elisha left it all – just like that. That’s because there is something greater than family. Truthfully, it is the only thing greater than family but it is far greater – that’s God. When God came calling for Elisha to give it all up, he did. Just like that. One day, Jesus was told that his family was looking for him. “Who are my mother and my brothers and my sisters?” Jesus said. “They are those who hear my word and do it.” There’s an old idea at weddings. The parents of the bride may often feel something along the lines of “We aren’t losing a daughter but gaining a son.” So with Elisha. When he left his family, what he was losing, though a great thing, was very small compared to the family that he was joining. So it is with us. A day will almost certainly come when God will call you to leave your family in some way. Perhaps it will simply be through death – yours or theirs. Or maybe it will be because your faith will drive a wedge between you. Who knows. But if it happens, remember this – though it is sorrowful to lose those we love, what we have in Christ, in the family of God is much greater. We have brothers and sisters in the forgiveness and peace won for us by Christ’s sacrifice. We have a Father who smiles down upon us. We have a home of eternal joy. We have a new family.
Elijah was down and understandably so. He had shown the people who the real God was. God had shown Himself to them. He had called them to repent through 3 and 1/2 years of drought. He had called the rain down according to God’s word. And now he is on the king and queen’s hit list. None of the people seemed to have cared, none of them help him. And Elijah starts to feel sorry for himself. He had become distracted so God refocused him. There is only one thing that matters – the still small voice, the word of God. The great sign that God sent on Mt. Carmel didn’t change anyone’s heart. And likely not that many people repented because of the 3 and 1/2 years of famine. There were not many believers in Israel – only 7,000 (an incredibly small number). But there were that many. Every one was a miracle. Every one had heard, had believed, had been changed by that still small voice. The world looks for big things, big numbers, and good times. But God’s church exists in weakness. It is created by a seemingly humble word and focused on the “weakness” of the cross. But from that weakness, from Christ’s ultimate humility, from that cross comes this still, small voice – “Your sins are forgiven.” That message, and that message alone makes a believer. It is that message upon which Christ builds His church, small and weak though it is. And against that message, Jezebel and Ahab and all the rulers and God-haters and unbelievers of all time could do nothing, against it, the gates of hell could not and can not prevail.
Prayer – Lord, let us find you in the stillness, the smallness, the weak-power of Your Word and Your Cross. Let it encourage us in trials. Focus our sights on it always. Let us find You were You are to be found not in the great and amazing, not in the entertaining but in Your Word and in Your Son.
2 Samuel 4 – https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2%20Samuel%204
And the bloodshed continues. And they’re proud of it! And again David shows His mettle or rather, His faith. He’s not interested in revenge and never has been. And that’s because of God. He knows that God will protect and avenge him when needed. In this case God uses the sin of these assassins to serve His purpose. He ends the civil war but that doesn’t mean he approves of what they did. So He has always done. . Evil people do evil things for evil reasons and always God causes their evil actions to turn out for good for His people. The ultimate example of this is the cross. Christ’s enemies wanted him dead, the devil wanted him dead and yet God used it to conquer His foes, He won forgiveness for the world, the ultimate good. He’s pretty good at working things out – got a problem? Leave it to Him.
There’s a lot of bad stuff that happens in this chapter, a lot of really awful consequences for sin, tragic scenes. First, there is Mical. You might remember that Mical had been David’s wife but when Saul was trying to kill David, he took Mical away and gave her to someone else. Now David wants her back and you can’t really blame him (though you can blame him for having 2 other wives at least already). But man, her other husband follows after her weeping – breaks your heart! A direct result of Saul’s sin and a reminder of the pain that can be caused when people break God’s designs for marriage. Then there’s Abner. Abner took way too long to follow the Lord’s command that David should be king but he did come around and David (wisely) welcomed and forgave him. Joab, no so much. Joab is a pest and a thorn in David’s side. He kills Abner in revenge for him killing his brother (even though, oh yeah that was in battle and Abner warned Asahel to stop trying to kill him so he wouldn’t have to return the favor). What anger, what foolishness, what brazen treachery and sin! And it could have had terrible consequences. The civil war was finally over but such an act easily could have reignited the fight. But David, like his Son Jesus brought peace. He humbled himself and wept for Abner (who had disobeyed God and opposed David). David fasted for him and wept for him and everyone saw it. David brought peace by forgiveness and cursed Joab’s house though frankly, he probably should have executed Joab (if he wasn’t David’s cousin, he probably would have). Jesus too brought peace, Jesus too humbled himself and forgave those who had disobeyed and opposed Him. He laid out his life on the cross not only fasting and weeping but suffering and dying for the sins of all. Let that be our comfort and our example when others sin against us, forgiveness brings peace.
Prayer – Lord forgive me for I have sinned and so let me also forgive others. Let your peace settle upon us like peaceful showers to bring forth fruits of love and joy. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
2 Samuel 2 – https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2+Samuel+2
There’s a poem about war by Thomas Hardy called “The man he killed.” Here’s a link to it – http://www.poetryfoundation.org/poem/173594
The point of the poem is how strange and sad war is. You kill a man on the other side because he’s on the other side. If you knew him elsewhere, you might be friends, you might share a drink or sing a song. You might even share a pew with him at church. How much weirder when there is civil war. That is what is happening in Israel in our text. Men killing their relatives and friends. Men being forced to fight against their fellow Israelites. And why? Because they didn’t listen to God. They thought they knew better and they didn’t trust His plan. God had anointed David to be king. He had made it clear that Saul’s descendants would not have the throne. Everyone knew this. Yet Abner makes Ish-Bosheth king. Why? He thought he knew better and perhaps was distrustful of a king from the tribe of Judah since they were the largest tribe. What it really comes down to is a failure to trust God and His Word. Such an attitude often has terrible consequences. It’s a reminder to us, God does know best! When we don’t like what He has said, when we think it doesn’t make sense, when we fail to trust let us remember Christ because He’s at the center of all this. He gives us the reason of all reasons to trust God. He died for us. He’s proved His love beyond any doubt. By His work to make us right with God, we can know that God is working things as He knows best and that’s good news! So don’t go to war because you don’t trust God. Trust Him, trust His forgiveness. There’s peace there.
Prayer – Lord, let us not in pride and unbelief question your holy Word and will. Give us faith to trust and love you above all things for You have made us Your own. Amen.
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